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Navigating the Changes in a Woman’s Personality After 40: A Guide for Men.
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By Admin,
As women reach the age of 40 or 50, significant shifts often occur in their personality. This transition can bring about increased boldness, a stronger sense of rebellion, heightened religious fervor, and a more focused and opinionated outlook on life. These changes can be particularly pronounced for women who have raised children.
It’s not uncommon for a woman who was once compliant and submissive to undergo a transformation at this stage. She may question traditional norms, challenge your viewpoints, or even reevaluate her own behavior. This newfound outspokenness can be surprising, but it’s essential for men to embrace this change.
If you find that your wife takes longer to respond to requests or tasks like dry cleaning or meal preparation, it might be because she’s prioritizing her own needs and desires more assertively than before. Turning 40 or 50 is often a time of reflection and reassessment for women.
For men who are unprepared, these changes can be jarring. If your wife has always followed your lead without question, her new boldness might catch you off guard. However, the key to maintaining harmony at home is to approach issues with fairness, objectivity, and reasonableness.
At this age, women often grapple with regrets about past decisions, and their husbands may be a focal point of those reflections. They become better judges of character, evaluating men through different and perhaps unconventional criteria.
To navigate this phase successfully, men should start preparing early. Treat your partner with fairness and respect, and you’ll likely find that she appreciates you more than ever. However, if you’ve been neglectful or unkind, brace yourself for a challenging period ahead.
Remember, a woman doesn’t forget those who’ve hurt her. Her actions and words will make it clear that she’s no longer the same person you married.
For younger men, understanding these changes early on can be beneficial for building stronger, more resilient relationships.
By: Derick Peretengboro
The Odimodi Youth body has formally witnessed a change in leadership following the handover by the outgoing President, Comrade Laide Cyril Laide, to the newly elected President, Comrade Austin Benikurukuru.
Laide, who assumed office in January 2023 after taking over from Tarede Ebiarede, completed a two-year tenure marked by active youth engagement and organizational stewardship. The transition took place during the final Odimodi Youth Congress presided over by the outgoing Executive Council.
The congress was held on Wednesday, January 1, 2026, at Eluwe House, Odimodi, where formal documents and responsibilities were handed over to the new leadership team.
The congress was held on Wednesday, January 1, 2026, at Eluwe House, Odimodi, where formal documents and responsibilities were handed over to the new leadership team.
Sources close to the incoming President disclosed that an enlarged inauguration ceremony for the new Executive Council has been scheduled for January 10, 2026. The event is expected to bring together community leaders, youth stakeholders, and invited guests to formally usher in the new administration.
The peaceful handover has been widely described by observers as a positive signal of unity, democratic maturity, and continuity within the Odimodi youth structure.
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Negerese-Led Alabini Progressive Front Pays Yuletide Courtesy Visit to Sen. Lokpobiri
By: Divine Perezide
Members of the Alabini Progressive Front, led by Chief Berry Negerese, on December 28, 2025, paid a Yuletide courtesy visit to Sen. Heineken Lokpobiri, Minister of State for Petroleum (Oil), in his hometown of Ekeremor, headquarters of Ekeremor Local Government Area, Bayelsa State.
The visit formed part of the 2025 Yuletide celebrations and was aimed at extending seasonal goodwill to the Minister and engaging with the leader and expressing solidarity. During the visit, the delegation presented assorted sea fish to the Minister as a symbolic gesture of appreciation and support exemplary of the core Ijaw practice.
Welcoming the group, Senator Lokpobiri expressed gratitude for the visit and commended the Alabini Progressive Front for promoting unity and cultural values during the festive season. He noted that such engagements strengthen bonds between leaders and grassroots stakeholders, especially at a time of reflection and renewed commitment to service.
Chief Negerese, speaking on behalf of the group, described the visit as a show of respect, unaloyed loyalty, and encouragement to the Minister, acknowledging his contributions to the petroleum sector, national economic advancement, and his continued interest in the growth and development of Bayelsa State.
The meeting featured cordial interactions and goodwill messages, characteristic of the spirit of the season.
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New Year 2026: Ijaw Leader Mulade Charges President Tinubu, Governors on Accountability, Economic Relief
A prominent Ijaw leader, peace advocate, and renowned human and environmental rights activist, Chief Mulade Sheriff, PhD, has welcomed Nigerians to the New Year 2026, urging governments at all levels to embrace prudence, accountability, and purposeful governance focused on delivering electoral promises rather than being distracted by the next election cycle.
Mulade, the Ibe-Serimowei of ancient Gbaramatu Kingdom, made the call in a New Year message he issued at Okerenkoko Community, Gbaramatu Kingdom Delta State, on New Year’s day.
In his message the renowned peace ambassador reflected on the prevailing socio-economic realities confronting the nation and the responsibilities of leadership at a critical time in Nigeria’s democratic journey.
According to him, Nigerians are currently grappling with severe economic hardship, a situation he noted demands urgent, people-oriented responses from the Federal Government.
The National Coordinator of the Center for Peace and Environmental Justice (CEPEJ), specifically charged President Bola Ahmed Tinubu, GCFR, to intensify efforts aimed at easing the burden on citizens through inclusive and sustainable economic policies that prioritize the welfare of ordinary Nigerians.
“It is imperative to state that Nigerians are going through hard times in the economy,” Mulade said, and added that “The Federal Government must therefore ensure that policies are people-focused, addressing the daily realities of citizens and restoring hope, stability, and confidence in governance.”
Turning attention to Delta State, the peace and development advocate commended Governor Rt. Hon. Sheriff Oborevwori for what he described as an ongoing infrastructural development revolution across major city centres of the state.
He noted that visible improvements in roads and urban infrastructure reflect the administration’s commitment to development.
However, Mulade urged the state governor, Rt Hon Sheriff Oborevwori to ensure that the benefits of development are evenly distributed across the Delta State in 2026, particularly by extending similar infrastructural projects to the riverine communities, predominantly occupied by the Ijaws and Itsekiris.
“These riverine communities are the sources and live wire of the state’s economy, through Blue marine economy, Oil and Gas,” he stated. “Extending infrastructure to these areas will give the people a greater sense of belonging, strengthen citizen participation, and promote collaboration and partnership in driving sustainable peace and continuous development in Delta State.”
He emphasized that inclusive development remains a critical factor in maintaining peace in the Niger Delta, stressing that communities that feel recognized and supported are more likely to cooperate with government policies and development initiatives.
Mulade also called on citizens, especially Deltans, to play their part in fostering peace and stability, noting that government efforts alone are insufficient without public cooperation.
“As citizens, we must give government, particularly Rt Hon Sheriff Oborevwori maximum support to ensure a peaceful and secured Delta,” he said. “Peace is essential to attracting and wooing investors who can create employment opportunities and drive development in our dear state,” he added. Let me specifically appealed to the various ethnic groups in Delta State to support and promote collaborative efforts for sustainable peace in the state that will foster peaceful coexistence among themselves for socio-economic stability and development in 2026..
The Ijaw leader congratulated Nigerians, particularly the people of Delta State, on the dawn of the New Year 2026, expressing optimism that the year would usher in better living conditions and greater opportunities for the nation.
He expressed hope that the 2026 budget with N1.7 trillion, Delta State would mark a turning point toward responsive governance, economic relief, and sustainable development anchored on peace, accountability, transparency and collective responsibility.